You Have Changed...

"You have changed", the phrase is a common comment, compliment, observation, reminder, taunt and what not, and interestingly, more often than not, we deny it, and vehemently deny it, when it is actually mostly true.

I recently realised that, I have actually changed a lot over the course of time. I'm not the same person that I was ten years, or even five years back. And I'm sure, we all relate to it. Our experiences, happenings, whatever we go through... it all changes us, for better or for worse, we do change.

Hardships change you, bittersweet experiences change you, failures, successes, wins and losses they all change you. Each passing day, each passing year changes you.

Every person you meet, the people you live with, the people you stay with, the people you work with, the people you let go, the people you leave, the people who leave you, the people you lose, they all change you, knowingly or unknowingly.

The people you like, the people who like you, the people you hate, the people who hate you, the people who help you, the people you help, the people who do not help you, the people you don't help, the people who save you, the people you save, the people who trouble you, the people you trouble, the people you learn from, the people who learn from you, the people you look upto, the people who look upto you, the people who talk to you, the people you talk to, the people who don't talk to you, the people you don't talk to. They all change you.

The books you have read, the books you left half read, the books you wish to read, they all change you.

The cinema that you watch, the content that you watch, the music that you listen to, it all changes you.

The gradual change brought about by anything and everything is usually apparently insignificant, but as it compounds over a longer period of time, it brings about the significant difference.

Slower or faster, more or less, we all do change, and that is an undeniable fact.

So, the next time when someone tells you that you've changed, don't deny it, rather accept it, you've changed because you've assimilated all that has come your way, and survived, and that's what really matters.

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